Confucius

 By Bruce Shawkey

The quote "Before you embark on a journey of revenge, dig two graves" is a powerful proverb that suggests revenge is a double-edged sword, harming both the perpetrator and the target. It implies that pursuing revenge not only harms the person you intend to harm but also takes a toll on your own well-being and relationships.

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